Friday, February 27, 2009

Octo Mamma needs the LORD!

It has been brought to the media's attention about a lady who has had octuplets through invetro- fertilization. It is hard enough carrying a child let alone eight and to have no support at all is really unfortunate. I can speak from experience. I was blessed to have had two healthy pregnancies and two beautiful healthy children. I know that I would not be able to carry on if I did not have the Lord on my side. He sought me through the tough times, children doesn't come with manuals so everything is trial and error and try again. Jesus gave me the most wonderful support system an extraordinary man my husband of four soon to be five years. Where would I be without my husband in the wee hours of the night when I wanted to catch a few more hours of z's and while he cradle our precious newborns, and talk about diaper duty. I could not imagine having eight babies all at once. It has to be hard without Christ. I would never in my life have children just because I am lonely. I think that women today are using there children as a crutch. They have these babies by these men who don't want to take full responsibility then that leaves the women forcing them to turn to the county to get help from tax paying individuals. It is a hard pill to swallow, but it is the truth. I believe that everyone who brings a child into this world should take full responsibility for that child not the family down the street. Now don't get me wrong there are some who might need the help and then there are others who continue to abuse the system. I know that my source is the Lord and each and everyday he is showing himself strong in our lives. Every bread that we eat is from my husbands sweat the comes off of his face as he works. The bible say a man don't work and man don't eat. At 25 my husband takes the best care of my children and I. I wish that so many other women in this world would wait on God to send them that wonderful husband. Hold on and trust in the Lord. We have got to start acknowledging the Lord in all our ways and he will direct our paths. Anytime we go against the will of God there will be confusion and complete chaos. My response to Octo-Mamma is that she truly needs God and that we should pray that the children grow up with love and proper care and someday have a personal relationship with Jesus as well. God bless